Homework can be a headache – for kids and parents. But it doesn’t have to be. It is possible to relieve the pain and frustration of getting schoolwork done.
Be informed
Knowing expectations can eliminate frustration. Some school districts post schoolwork guidelines online. Many teachers also explain their practices during a new school year open house. If not, don’t be afraid to ask.
Discuss homework expectations with your child. Share what you and the teacher will be asking of him, and how that has changed from last year. Also ask your child what he expects.
Establish a routine
“Establish a time every day [for homework],” says teacher and mom Gwen Stephens. “For some kids it works best to get it done right away. Other kids need time to chill out.”
Finding a homework routine takes trial and error. After school lessons and sports may require seasonal shifts in the routine. And it may not be the same for all kids in the family. But once you find what works, be consistent. When there’s a rhythm in place, kids learn to roll with it. Routine alone can smooth out problems with homework – particularly in assuring a prompt start.
Create space
Workspace needs vary. Some children work best with few visual distractions. Others prefer company while working, or need to be near mom for help. Again, don’t be afraid to switch around for a while to learn your child’s preferences. Then once you’ve created a space, maintain it.
It is also important to have homework supplies available. Double check what you have on hand, then store them nearby.
Provide support with boundaries
When it comes to completing homework, be accessible without hovering. Share observations and offer encouragement. But avoid doing the work for your child.
“Some parents don’t know how to let the child do homework without interfering,” Stephens explains. “[Homework] should be something the teacher checks, not the parent. Otherwise that’s not the child’s homework any more. It’s the parent’s.”
Using these tools, you can ease your child back into the routine of schoolwork at home. The results should be encouraging to everyone.
